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I Want a Wife                                                    4
                    Judy Brady                                                              TRM  ELL Essential Guide Handout  chapter 4
                                                                                            An ELL Essential Guide for this r eading
                                                                                            An ELL Essential Guide for this reading
                    Judy Brady (1937–2017)  was born in San Francisco and earned a BFA      can be found in the T eacher’ s Resour ce
                                                                                            can be found in the Teacher’s Resource
                    in painting from the University of Iowa in 1962. She was active in      Materials.
                                                                                            Materials.
                    political and environmental movements as an editor and author. She   Other Voices  /  Judy Brady
                    edited Women and Cancer (1990) and One in Three: Women with
                    Cancer Confront an Epidemic (1991). Brady’s work has also appeared      TRM  Vocabulary Handout
                    in periodicals such as Greenpeace magazine and the Women’s    Judith Brady  V ocabulary in Context exer cises based on
                Copyright (c) 2023 Bedford, Freeman & Worth Publishers. Uncorrected proofs have been used for this sample chapter.
                                                                                            Vocabulary in Context exercises based on
                    Review of Books. Since appearing in the premiere issue of Ms.           challenging words from this reading can be
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                    magazine in 1972, “I Want a Wife” has become a classic piece of feminist   found in the T eacher’ s Resour ce Materials.
                                                                                            found in the Teacher’s Resource Materials.
                    writing and humor. It was reprinted as “I [Still] Want a Wife” in Ms. in 1990.
                  belong to that classification of people known   the job. It may mean a small cut in my wife’s   BUILDING CONTEXT
                I  as wives. I am A Wife. And, not altogether   income from time to time, but I guess I can tol-
                   Distributed by Bedford, Freeman & Worth Publishers. Strictly for use with its products. Not for redistribution.
                incidentally, I am a mother.     erate that. Needless to say, my wife will arrange   Accor ding to her June 2017 obituary (avail-
                                                                                            According to her June 2017 obituary (avail-
                  Not too long ago a male friend of mine   and pay for the care of the children while my   able thr ough the SFGA TE website and the
                                                                                            able through the SFGATE website and the
                appeared on the scene fresh from a recent   wife is working.                San Francisco Chronicle), Judy Brady was a
                                                                                            San Francisco Chronicle
                divorce. He had one child, who is, of course,   I want a wife who will take care of my physi-  full-time housewife whose trips to Cuba and
                                                                                            full-time housewife whose trips to Cuba and
                with his ex-wife. He is looking for another wife.   cal needs. I want a wife who will keep my house   Nicaragua “deepened her commitment to
                                                                                            Nicaragua “deepened her commitment to
                As I thought about him while I was ironing one   clean. A wife who will pick up after my children,   social and economic justice.” She survived
                                                                                            social and economic justice.” She survived
                                                                                            breast cancer in her forties and then turned
                evening, it suddenly occurred to me that I, too,   a wife who will pick up after me. I want a wife   br east cancer in her forties and then tur ned
                                                                                            much of her attention to how the environ-
                would like to have a wife. Why do I want a wife?  who will keep my clothes clean, ironed, mended,     much of her attention to how the envir on-
                                                                                            ment plays a role in causing cancer. You
                  I would like to go back to school so that I can   replaced when need be, and who will see to it   ment plays a r ole in causing cancer . Y ou
                                                                                            may want to look up the obituary and share
                become economically independent, support   that my personal things are kept in their proper   may want to look up the obituary and shar e
                                                                                            it with students to help them understand the
                myself, and, if need be, support those depen-  place so that I can find what I need the minute I   it with students to help them understand the
                                                                                            diversity of her experiences and activism.
                dent upon me. I want a wife who will work and   need it. I want a wife who cooks the meals, a wife   diversity of her experiences and activism.
                send me to school. And while I am going to   who is a good cook. I want a wife who will plan
                school I want a wife to take care of my children.   the menus, do the necessary grocery shopping,
                I want a wife to keep track of the children’s   prepare the meals, serve them pleasantly, and   BUILDING CONTEXT
                  doctor and dentist appointments. And to keep   then do the cleaning up while I do my studying. I
                                                                                            T
                                                                                            o help students better understand the
                track of mine, too. I want a wife to make sure my   want a wife who will care for me when I am sick   To help students better understand the
                                                                                            expectations of wives during dif
                                                                                                                   ent
                                                                                                                 fer
                children eat properly and are kept clean. I want   and sympathize with my pain and loss of time   expectations of wives during different
                                                                                            decades, you could have them research
                a wife who will wash the children’s clothes and   from school. I want a wife to go along when our   decades, you could have them r esear ch
                                                                                                   oles in the 1940s, 1950s, and
                                                                                                 s r
                                                                                            women’
                keep them mended. I want a wife who is a good   family takes a vacation so that someone can   women’s roles in the 1940s, 1950s, and
                                                                                            1960s. For example, Gale’
                                                                                                             s U.S. History
                nurturant attendant to my children, who   continue to care for me and my children when I   1960s. For example, Gale’s U.S. History
                                                                                            database has a page titled “Women’s Roles
                arranges for their schooling, makes sure that   need a rest and change of scene.  database has a page titled “W omen’ s Roles
                                                                                            in the 1950s” and History Today includes
                they have an adequate social life with their   I want a wife who will not bother me with   5  in the 1950s” and
                                                                                                      omen in the 1950s.” Similarly
                                                                                            “The Story of W
                peers, takes them to the park, the zoo, etc. I want   rambling complaints about a wife’s duties. But I   “The Story of Women in the 1950s.” Similarly,  ,
                                                                                            U.S. News & World Report has an article
                a wife who takes care of the children when they   want a wife who will listen to me when I feel the   U.S. News & W orld Report
                                                                                            titled “The 1960s: A Decade of Change for
                are sick, a wife who arranges to be around when   need to explain a rather difficult point I have   titled “The 1960s: A Decade of Change for
                                                                                            Women.” (Beware, however, of a magazine
                the children need special care, because, of   come across in my course of studies. And I want   W omen.” (Bewar e, however , of a magazine
                                                                                                               s Guide.”
                                                                                            article called the “Good Wife’
                course, I cannot miss classes at school. My wife   a wife who will type my papers for me when I   article called the “Good Wife’s Guide.”
                                                                                            Though r
                                                                                                  egularly cited, it is not believed to be
                must arrange to lose time at work and not lose   have written them.         Though regularly cited, it is not believed to be
                                                                                    209     an authentic and accurate publication.) Stu-
                                                                                            an authentic and accurate publication.) Stu-
                                                                                            dents could work in groups to research differ-
                                                                                            dents could work in gr oups to r esear ch dif fer -
                                                                                            ent decades and create short presentations,
                                                                                            ent decades and cr eate short pr esentations,
                                                                                            or they could construct social media mes-
                                                                                            or they could construct social media mes-
                                                                                            sages for imagined women from the different
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                                                                                            eras. (For example, what kinds of things
                    DIFFERENTIATION                     CLOSE READING                       would a 1950s housewife tweet about?)
                    Connections to World                To help students understand the major “ben-
                                                        efits” of a wife (and Brady’s line of reasoning),
                    Given that Brady’s essay was published in   you could have them identify the major focus
                    1971, some of her expectations are outdated.   of each paragraph. For example, day-to-day
                    You could have students write a revised ver-  practicalities, physical needs, emotional
                    sion that reflects modern expectations. You   needs, social needs, and sexual needs. Is
                    might also raise the question of the relevance   there a progression of ideas in the sequence,
                    of Brady’s satire to different family structures.   and if so, how would you characterize it? Are
                    How might household responsibilities, such   there important parts of a marital relationship
                    as the ones in Brady’s essay, be distributed in   that Brady does not address?
                    homes with a single parent, same-sex par-
                    ents, or any other arrangement beyond a het-
                    erosexual couple?
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